How to Choose the Right Memorial for Your Loved One

Choosing a memorial for someone you’ve lost is one of the most personal decisions you can make. It’s not just about finding something beautiful, it’s about finding something that feels right. Something that reflects their spirit, honours their story, and brings you comfort every time you see it.

The first step is to think about who they were. Were they someone who loved simple elegance, or did they have a bold, vibrant personality? Did they appreciate traditional styles, or were they drawn to modern design? The right memorial should feel like it belongs to them.

Next, think about how you want to interact with it. For some, a memorial is a quiet place for reflection. For others, it’s something they want to see and engage with every day. At Resonate Memorials, we design our urns and keepsakes to be part of your home...pieces that can display cherished photographs, videos, and even hold treasured items like jewellery or letters.

It’s also worth considering whether you’d like a standard design or something fully customised. A personalised plaque, a bespoke slideshow, or a unique finish can make your memorial truly one-of-a-kind.

And finally, remember that there’s no “right time” to create a memorial. Some families commission one immediately after a passing, while others transfer a loved one’s ashes years later, finding new comfort in a fresh tribute.

The most important thing is this: your memorial should make you feel a sense of connection. It should bring warmth to your home and peace to your heart. If it does that, you’ve chosen well.

At Resonate Memorials, we’d be honoured to help you create a piece that reflects everything you loved about them, and everything you still hold close.